Dearest fans of Girls Club,
It would interest you to know that over the years, I got readers attacking me in my message box because of my sermons on sexual purity. However, I never had cause to even reply most times and instead increased the sound of my voice which appears to have worked because the attacks reduced and have almost gone into extinction. A member of Girls Club was irked by a post she saw on social media and wrote this. I completely agree with her! It’s a pity our voices are not loud enough because of the deafening vibration of immorality in the world today but we shall keep shouting until we are heard in the four corners of the world!
Miss Ugoma Johnson writes:
Before I proceed with this “vent”, let me make it clear that this post is not in any way directed to those who have gone through rape or been sexually harassed in any way. It is specifically for those who willingly gave out their pride yet find it satisfying to humiliate others who have chosen to keep themselves for whatever reason. I see a lot of you online saying that most of the ladies who parade themselves as virgins are only virgins because they have not been presented with an opportunity to have sex.
Tell me, which lady/guy has never been tempted in this world? A world that even if you are not harassed sexually on a one-on- one basis, the things you hear, see online and watch on TV will tempt you, even some of the so-called music we listen to have a way of arousing one’s urge for sex. So you now see, everyone has been tempted one way or the other.
Yesterday, I read a comment in Igbo RantHQ where a lady shamelessly said that some virgins are only virgins because of fear of their parents. And then I ask, a girl who chooses to keep herself sexually pure because of fear of her parents and you who lack fear and respect for your parents to the point that you can even bring your sex partners to your parents’ home to carry out the act in their absence, who is more reasonable?
You say that being a virgin doesn’t make one a virtuous wife, that it is her character that makes her a wife material, and you think that not being a virgin makes one a wife material okwaya? You see how you are indirectly promoting evil all in a bid to sound woke, if being a virgin doesn’t qualify one as a wife material, is it letting every Tom, Dick and Harry that crosses your path have access into your ‘Jerusalem’ that will then qualify you?
And all of you posting such rubbish have suddenly forgotten that it takes discipline to say no to premarital sex, and discipline enhances character. What is character without the ability to discipline yourself? Tell me, ndi okacha mara alias I too know.
Let me make it clear again that this my vent is also not directed at non-virgins who have decided to keep themselves pure going forward, rather, I celebrate you for choosing to retrace your steps after you have tasted and seen that such life will not help you. Keep it up, you might not be a spotless virgin, but from the moment you made up your mind never to indulge in it again, in the eyes of God you have become a virgin. You are what is referred to as “secondary virgin.”
So whether you are a virgin in the real sense of it or you are a fellow secondary virgin, I encourage you never to allow the venomous comment from sons and daughters of Jezebel to discourage you. Keep staying pure. I am proud of you and heaven is also proud of you.
To you that think the only way to excite yourself is by bringing virgins down, let me give you a little piece of advice. You don’t need to have gold to appreciate its beauty and value. In other words, the fact that you are not a virgin does not give you the right to go about tearing virgins down. If you’re hurt that you are no longer a virgin, then I think that instead of trying to shame virgins, you should channel that energy into becoming a secondary virgin like some of us.
You can overcome your sexual addictions and become pure again. I understand that it is not easy, but with determination and the help of the Holy Spirit you can become pure again and join the league of secondary virgins. I celebrate you in advance as you make that decision today.
To you virgins and secondary virgins, I celebrate you even more for choosing the path of purity. I pray that God will continue to strengthen you. Keep pushing and do not be discouraged.
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Are you still engaging in pre-marital sex? Each act devalues you! Your wonders are waiting to start. God is waiting for you to become a secondary virgin! You are most welcome on board the chastity campaign train and Girls Club is open for all girls and ladies.
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