This is from a male reader, he needs your advice.
A lady and I have been dating for about a year now and sex with her is lowering my self-esteem and confidence. No matter what I do to her and with her, I have not been able to please her or make her reach orgasm. I’ve used my tongue, my fingers, my p****, but nothing works. Most of the time I’ll go down on her and stay there for over 30 mins trying to please her and when I raise my head to see if she was enjoying it she would ask me, are you done? I usually strain my mouth and tongue for so long and all I get from this lady is ‘are you done?’ She told me she was not circumcised but I have had sex with other uncircumcised women who enjoyed it thereby raising my pride as a man but this woman is just too rigid, I’ve never seen anything like it. But before you suggest I dump her, I need to let you know that is not an option for now, I’m crazy about her and her beauty too. Everything else in our relationship is going very well. My big problem is, I just can’t make her maximally enjoy intimacy with me and I don’t want to lose her. Please, what do I do?
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