According to Reno Omokri, If you want to lose two things at once, then borrow (lend) money to your friends and family members. Read his full piece below..
If you want to lose two things at once, then borrow (lend) money to your friends and family members. You will end up losing both the money and the relationship. Human nature is such that this is never a good idea. If you love your friends and family members, then have a little money set aside to give to them when they approach you.Giving them money has the opposite effect. It strengthens the relationship. However, don’t be afraid to say NO if you can’t afford to borrow or give out. If they take offense at you for saying no, then they were never really your friend in the first place.